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According to Court TV, Beth Friedman, 42, was convicted in
Florida of contributing to the delinquency of a minor, Donald Vaden,
because the boy claimed that when he was only 15, she offered him
gifts of alcohol and drugs in exchange for sex. Her defense
was that he was extorting her for money by making up lies. In
the same state, Denise McBryde, 38, admitted to having sexual
relations with a 15-year-old student, while in Minnesota, Julie Feil,
32, pleaded guilty to a three-month sexual affair with a student,
claiming that she loved him "the best way I knew how."
Kimberly Merson, 24, brought eight underage boys to her home, got
them drunk, removed their clothes, and had sex with them.
These women initiated the activity, taking advantage of boys who
were sexually stimulated and flavoring their crime with a romantic
tone. There was no violence involved, some of them say, and
the boys were willing, so what is the problem?
They're abusing their roles to satisfy themselves. Romantic
or not, they are female sexual offenders.
Such women represent about 10 percent of all sexual offenses, and
their abuse often involves their own child or children. Some
have only one victim, many have several. Psychologist A. J.
Cooper cites a study that 20 percent of these sex offenders even
resort to force. He points out that the reasons why some women
become recalcitrant sex offenders is incompletely understood, but he
feels that it may result from a combination of hyper sexuality,
associations with early sexual experiences, and imitation of abuse
perpetrated on them. They even tend to use the same forms of
abuse that they had once experienced. Most of them are
immature, dependent, and sensitive to rejection, so they tend to
gravitate toward younger people who are not their peers. The
risk of rejection is less likely and they create situations in which
they can be in control.
Psychiatrist Janet Warren and psychologist Julia Hislop also
researched female sexual offenders, and in Practical Aspects of
Rape Investigation, they offered a typology:
- Facilitators – women who intentionally aid men in gaining
access to children for sexual purposes
- Reluctant partners – women in long term relationships who go
along with sexual exploitation of a minor out of fear of being
abandoned
- Initiating partner – women who want to sexually offend
against a child and who may do it themselves or get a man or
another woman to do it while they watch
- Seducers and lovers – women who direct their sexual interest
against adolescents and develop an intense attachment
- Pedophiles – women who desire an exclusive and sustain
sexual relationship with a child ( a very rare occurrence)
- Psychotic – women who suffer from a mental illness and who
have inappropriate sexual contact with children as a result
In some cases, women who lacked ongoing relationships with men
put their male children in the role of substitute lover, and there
are cases in which the sexual contact is used as revenge against a
male partner. These female perpetrators generally come from
chaotic homes. "Not only does this have long term effects
on the children," these researchers note, "but it also
serves as a contagion that follows victims into the next generation
with repetitious and cyclical traumatization of others."
Some of these women get involved with men who then use them in
more serious crimes, although the majority of partners in murder
appear not to have suffered abuse. How they get to the point
of criminal behavior is more often influenced by how the partner
treats them over a period of time.
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